Somedays we have great days and other days are harder to get through. Keep in mind the day itself has not changed from one to the next, it is our perception of how we feel the day should be. What if we remove our perceptions from what we are witnessing, whether it is happening to us or happening around us? What if we just watched? How would that make you feel? Does everything that occurs around us need to have all of our attention and emotions thrown into it? No. We need to be in observation to decide whether it is something we will learn from or is it something we should walk away from. It is a choice....it is our choice. What would happen if you decided to walk away from a relationship, a job, school, what if you decide to change your direction in life? What if you made the decision to understand why? Why do you react the way you do, why do you shut down, why you feel there is something missing, just why? The moment we ask ourselves questions, we open communication with self, feel compassionate towards self, and most importantly, we start healing self. It is when we put our self first. How you ask? By listening to your internal self, recognizing your body's response to situations, by acknowledging there are people, places, and things that are not healthy for your growth and happiness. We don't necessarily need to remove them from our lives but to acknowledge them as a part of our life and move through to our next adventure. Please remember you are here on Earth to be you, no one else but you.